Monthly Archives: July 2012

Can my Gay Community please stop whining about Sally Ride.

For those in my gay community whining about all the good Sally Ride could have done had she only “come out;” I say – Get over yourself. For most gays and lesbians the hardest thing we will ever do in … Continue reading

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We Are… Penn State…

I think that one of life’s hardest lessons is realizing that someone is not at all what you believed them to be.  All of us create these idealistic images in our heads and our hearts about people without really knowing … Continue reading

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Hearing “Happy Pride” is like hearing “Happy Birthday”

There were 14 people in our little contingent sitting in our favorite spot along the Parade Route.  Three of us are gay; the other 11 are straight neighbors and friends who were with us showing love and support and total … Continue reading

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My being gay is not my opinion – it’s my life.

I’ve been asked numerous times why I write so much about gay issues. Why can’t I just let things go? Why can’t I just let others have their opinions? Why must I protest and tell people not to shop at … Continue reading

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The Boy Scouts of America – How does one forgive Stupid?

So – The Boy Scouts of America will continue to ban gay members.  Took them two years to review and make this decision.  I’m just wondering… were there any scouts on this panel that represented “a diversity of perspectives and … Continue reading

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The Remains of the Day…

Ever have one of those days when you aren’t sure how it is you’re supposed to be feeling? You’re happy, and yet, your mind wanders to events that aren’t quite so happy, and then it wanders back to events that … Continue reading

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Are rape jokes about men & babies as funny as rape jokes about women?

I wasn’t going to jump into the free-speech, don’t heckle the comic telling rape jokes fray, however, I find myself reading articles, shaking my head thinking: Is this what we’ve become; A funny rape joke society? Honestly, I’ve never even heard of Daniel Tosh.  … Continue reading

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